Dearest Carmie & Family,
My heart is just breaking for ALL of you, but especially you Carmie his mom for 36 years, and April his love that missed the opportunity to marry him & grow old with him. I can only IMAGINE your pain, and I wish there was something I could DO or SAY to take all that hurt away. The only sure thing from my own personal experiences of heartache is trusting and turning to God. He WILL help you, and, someday you WILL be with Patrick again in paradise where there are NO MORE TEARS or SUFFERING!!......Only JOY and LOVE. Until then I will be praying for all of you that loved him, and all of those HE loved.
I'm sorry not to have addressed his father. I don't know you Jan, but I'm am deeply sorry to you too. Losing your child, your only son, must be a pain that there are no words for.
May your memories comfort ALL of you and the fact you will see him again.
With My Deepest & Heartfelt Sympathy,
Estelle.....(Elvira's BFF). PEACE & LOVE XO
This feels like a bad dream. I lost a part of me. I lost the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I will always love you and I know you are watching over us. I love you Patrick and I will always be your family.
Patick, you will always be in our thoughts and heart. Your smile was something special. Miss you and love you.
I just don't understand how this can be. We had so much left to do and talk about together. Is this really happening to our family?!
You have left a hole in our hearts and we will miss you always.
I miss you dearly my brother! Please watch over our family. I love you with all of my heart.
Until we meet again......
I may not have know Pat well but of what I knew of him, he was a great person and was very special. He was going to be a wonderful husband to April and he will forever be with the people who loved him. May God be with his family, including April, and guide them through this impossibly difficult time.
I am truly heart broken to hear that a member of our family is no longer with us...I am so saddened.