Wallly Ruehle posted a condolence

Thursday, February 12, 2026

Michelle and Kathy, So very sorry to learn of the death of your mom and your sister. I am keeping all of you in my prayers. Wally Ruehle

Vicki (Nuccie) Griffin lit a candle

Thursday, February 12, 2026

There are people who come into your life and leave a mark so deep that even time can’t soften it. Sue was one of those people for me. Someone whose presence shaped who I became, whose love and influence still echo in the choices I make and the way I move through the world. When I look back, I see a lifetime of moments, big and small, that she helped color with meaning. The mother figure I needed. She always showed up, when I needed her the most. I also carry the regret of letting life pull me away. The years move fast, responsibilities pile up, and before you know it, distance grows where closeness used to be. I wish I had held on tighter, visited more often, made more room for the relationship that meant so much. But regret is just another way of saying the bond mattered, that Sue mattered. What brings me comfort now is knowing that love doesn’t disappear just because time slipped away. The connection we had didn’t fade; it simply waited for me to return to it. I hold her with me in the quiet moments, in the lessons she taught me, and in the strength, she helped me find. Sue lives on in the way I love, the way I show up for others, and the way I try to be a better version of myself. That’s how she stays with me, not just in memory, but in the life, I continue to build with her still in my heart. What a blessing the whole Desino family was/is to me, an extended family who loved me unconditionally. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with Ron, Michelle, Lisa and the entire family.

mmulla9@rochester.rr.com Posted Feb 12, 2026 at 2:52 PM

Such a beautiful testament

Joyce Dineen lit a candle

Wednesday, February 11, 2026

I've known Sue since kindergarten, St Francis. One of my most memorable is our class photo. Sue was the cutest of all. She sat in the front row, hands folded and stood out just like Shirley Temple. She was adorable! I lost the photo, but I will never forget how she looked. We went to high school together and we had a lot of good times with our group of friends. Sue was always quick with a silly remark and laughing so happily. Every now and then, I would run into her and Ronnie at the casino. I don't recall her winning, on those days. That's ok Sue. You won far more in life than money at the casino. It's the love from all those that have known you. Ron and family, you have my deepest sympathy.

Paul & Lucy Bato posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Ron & Family, Paul went to high school and graduated with Sue. I’ve known the family for many years. Love, prayers and deepest condolences. Paul & Lucy Bato

Elvira Zicari posted a symbolic gesture

Thursday, February 5, 2026

Susan was a wonderful friend to me and all of us.We have such great memories together, we always laughed a lot. She will surely be missed and never forgotten. My heart is broken. Rest in peace my dear friend, I love you.

Joann Leone uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, February 4, 2026

So many wonderful memories, most of them filled with laughter. From East High to the UDMJ’s to our road trip to NYC one Thanksgiving. Thank you for being in my life. You were a bright light that will shine in all our lives forever. RIP my sweet friend. Ron, you and Sue were a part of my life for many years and have always held a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

mmulla9@rochester.rr.com Posted Feb 8, 2026 at 5:45 PM

I think that picture is from their surprise 25th Anniversary Party. That was so much fun! Thank God for memories. Wish we could make a lot more together ; (

Ashley Skene posted a symbolic gesture

Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Big hugs to all. Sue was so full of light and wit. I clearly remember a snicker and laugh that could fill up the room. Even after Gram Viv passed, her interactions and notes about the kids felt like a comfort of home. I know they're reunited together and watching over all their loved ones. Sending lots of peace and comfort to all during this time

Ellieen Elliott (Corbo) posted a symbolic gesture

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

My Dear Dear friend of so many years. We met in 3rd grade(ST. Francis) always got in trouble in class but good trouble. Then High school, Wow! so many memories, dances, parties, united dairy,the beach, we went and did so much together( all the UDMJ's) always. Those memories can never be replaced and will be in my heart forever. I hope your at peace now. I love you my Dear Dear friend.

Susan Diehm-Fletcher posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

What can I say about this beautiful woman who could tell a story with humor making me and others laugh. Sue and I called each other Sue #1 and Sue #2. She was and always will be Sue #1. I will miss her more than words can say. God will care for her now. My condolences to Ron and her wonderful family who she loved so much. With love and hugs from Sue #2 to all of you.

Darryl Cushman uploaded photo(s)

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

My wife and I had the pleasure to travel through Italy with Sue and Mary Ann in 2019. All I can say is, she was a kindred spirit. We shared sarcasm and laughter from Sicily to the Dolomites during our 14 days together. My deepest condolences and prayers to her family during this sad time. We wish her nothing but peace for her new journey. Darryl & Melissa Cushman

Christine (Lorenzo) VanRyne posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Susan, the memories will last forever. We met in high school and had such good times. All the fun we had at the Valguarnera and the Uptown dances. The times at the UD. When we all became the UDMJ's. The memories will last forever. Rest now my friend, and sleep with the angels. Tina VanRyne (Lorenzo)

Annie Parlato Bermudez lit a candle

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

I have many memories of this wonderful “Grandma. But my very favorite is the one where she was looking at her newest Great grandaughter Millie and said to her mom, “How does it feel to not have any of those kids look like you? She didn’t say it out of maliciousness but with pride and love. Same love she put in her “Ronies” that the kids rave about and her hugs. BTW It’s true. Every time I look at Vanessa, Gabriella and Millie I will always see you shinning through their smiles and eyes. Rest in peace Gramma Sue, we all with miss your presence. Nana Annie.

Estelle Mulla uploaded photo(s)

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Some of our fun times together

Ellieen Elliott (Corbo) Posted Feb 3, 2026 at 12:59 PM

love these pics, beautiful

Joann Leone Posted Feb 4, 2026 at 9:34 PM

Estelle, beautiful pictures of forever friends.

Estelle Mulla lit a candle

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Dear Ronnie & Family, Our hearts are broken along with you. Sue has been a friend for over 60 years. We had so many memorable and fun times together. We’re glad she’s no longer suffering, but she will be greatly missed. A light went out in our group of UDMJ’s RIP SUE - We Will Love You Forever

The family of Susan Ann Desino uploaded a photo

Monday, February 2, 2026

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