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Diane Sturmer posted a condolence
Saturday, November 10, 2018
Bethann, I miss you so much! Our talks and our puppies playing together at Pine Hill.
You are a true beauty and authentic! That's why I love you! You always got so excited when I was heading to Ireland and it was always fun bringing something back! I loved the way you loved Frank and always let us know he was your best friend. I am so happy we were able to travel to the tree house together and enjoy our fun ride out there. There are so many memories of deep heart talks that I will always treasure! You are my favorite.....and we know you had many! But, loved when you said it!
Until we meet again....you will be in my heart!
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M Giglio lit a candle
Wednesday, August 22, 2018
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M Giglio posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 22, 2018
I will miss Bethann as long as I live, and will carry all the great thing's I learned from her, in my heart forever. I'm forever changed by her wits, her smart's, compassion, and sensibilities. She helped me grow in so many ways, I'm forever in debt to her. I'm so glad, yet not surprised to read about all the other peoples lives she touched. Thank you all for writing, it helps me in this time of grieving to know she was always surrounded by friend's and people that cared about her. I didn't know Frank, but it is awesome to hear about the love they shared for each other. And how happy they were together. I wish him all the best. Bethann was such a special person. Miss you Ba. Love you.
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Dawn (Peters) clark lit a candle
Wednesday, August 22, 2018
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BethAnn, you will surely be missed. Sorry we lost touch over the years, you were a great mentor and friend at HCS for many years! Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Thank you for always keeping me smiling.
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Sandy O posted a condolence
Friday, August 17, 2018
BA, you were the Queen of Hearts, and now you are in our hearts forever. Live, love and laugh forever...you are HOME. Love you BA
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Cheryl Lasher posted a condolence
Thursday, August 16, 2018
My prayers are with you, Frank and Bethann's family.. Although I have never met you Frank, the enormous love you and Bethann shared for one another was so inspiring and beautiful! Her "happy moments" posts and pictures of the two of you going out on road trips used to always make me smile. It was a reminder to me of all the truly good people there are out there... I am so grateful to have met Bethann. I am so thankful our paths crossed in life. You know, more than anyone, I am sure, what an amazing person she was. She will be missed dearly!❤
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Cheryl Lasher lit a candle
Thursday, August 16, 2018
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Susan Hodes, RN posted a condolence
Thursday, August 16, 2018
Dear Frank, I was blessed to be one of Bethann's nurses as she and you began her journey with cancer. I am so sorry to know you and the world have lost your beautiful Bethann - truly a gift to this world! She inspired me and so many others everyday and made me want to be a better nurse...a better person. Her strength, her humor, her genuine being left no room for negative thoughts or actions. She made me more appreciative of my life and the people in it and helped me understand the power of the positive and the gift of leaving the small, petty things behind. Your love and constant support for one another was beautiful to witness. You were her heart and I can only imagine your pain at her leaving. Energy and spirit does not die. She will always be with you and if anyone can make her presence felt after death, it will be Bethann! I will never forget either of you!
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Priscilla Smalser posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
Dear family of Beth Ann,
We have not seen Beth Ann for years, but have many fond memories of her as a little girl, and watching her grow up!
As good friends of Kathy & Don, we used to camp together, celebrate Birthdays and other holidays together. I could tell of some pretty funny stories, but just want all of you to know, how much we loved her! We are so sorry for your loss. Beth Ann was a very special gal to many! I loved watching the video of her many pictures!
Love,
Phil & Priscilla Smalser
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Liz and Eric Fossum posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
Frank,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Liz and Eric Fossum
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Lori DiRisio posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
I love your description of BethAnn as a game of “cards against humanity” with legs. She was so funny and witty but her compassion was evident in everything she did. I am grateful to have known her. My condolences to Frank, and all of her extended family and dear friends.
Lori DiRisio
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Paula Collette lit a candle
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
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Jennifer Piper lit a candle
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Amie Nielsen lit a candle
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
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My sincere condolences to Frank and to the rest of Beth's family. Beth was my best friend in elementary school. While we grew apart afterwards, we remained in contact until just recently. I will remember Beth as the funniest and wittiest person I have ever met.
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Debby Relkin posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
Beth and I lived together in college and I was happy to reconnect with her on FB. We chatted a bit and I really enjoyed her posts about her life, her love of Frank and the way they took care of each other, and her pups. I will miss seeing her personality every day. She was one in a million.
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Jennifer Feagles posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
Frank and family,
I worked with Beth Ann many years ago at HCH. We struck up a friendship which, although we didn't see each other sustained the test of time and distance. I have admired her strength and courage, bravery and willingness to share her story with so many. I will hang onto the memories of working together and laughing.
I am devastated by this loss for all of you. I can't imagine the void she has left. I hope that you are able to smile at the years of love and memories and know that she had a positive and lasting impact on many people.
My heartfelt sympathy,
Jennifer Feagles
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Tuesday, August 14, 2018
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Tammy Wolf lit a candle
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
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Thinking of you during this difficult time.
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Howard and Ann Marie Burkett posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
Dear Frank and family-Beth Ann and you will always share a special place in our hearts. Her warm hugs and wonderful smile will always be treasured. Frank, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Beth Ann was one in a million. We send our love to you and the family. Love Ann Marie, Howard, Kim, Aaron and Jessica
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Lisa Reid lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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We shared a lot of laughs at 5 Miles. Thank you for sharing your gratitudes online, they always put a smile on my face.
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Terry DeMar posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Bethann I will miss how you would tell it like it was, no holding back. As we all process this moment may we all remember the stories and cherish the fond memories. How in her honesty she still was able to navigate us through to a brighter side by following with humor when needed. I will keep these memories close to my heart.
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Nathan Hall posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Bethann, I have so much love and respect for you and Frank. I am glad I was able to be with you for a short time when I came home to Rochester last month. Frank, I am so sorry there wasn't more time for you to be with your amazing wife, but the memories will be forever and our families will be together again..Bethann is easily one of my coolest cousins and she will always be in my memories. Her time may be over here on earth, but I know God has plans for her and Aunt Kathy, and we can only imagine what they are up to already...much love -Nate
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Donna owen posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
My heart is heavy with sadness. Beth Ann was such a warm, loving, funny woman with a big heart. My prayers and thoughts to Frank and the Family. May she RIP.
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Tiffany Sorgen posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
I met BethAnn through my sister, abd have never met a sweeter soul. She had this amazing ability to make everyone around her feel special and loved. Her smile was contagious. My sympathy goes out to her friends and family.
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Molly lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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God bless. The blessed hearts of Heritage are a wondrous breed.
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Joanne Waide posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Frank, very sorry to hear about Beth. Sending much love and many prayers during this difficult time. I’ll be thinking of you.
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Mary Yonkosky posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Beth was a special person. She will be deeply missed. We are so sad. Our deepest sympathy through this difficult time.
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Boris Zuniga lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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Beth was a co-worker and I was blessed to know her a little. The times we spoke she was full of joy and it was very obvious that she care about the people she was serving. My heart is feeling happiness because she is in the presence or our Lord but she will be missed and remember for who she was. My prayers are with her family and friends.
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Allena McGlaughlin lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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May your spirit, fight and humor live on in all who knew you.
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Bianca (Strega) Cameron-Schwiesow lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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During Beth Ann's battle with cancer, I lit a candle for her in every single cathedral I visited in Europe and sent her photos. Being so far apart, I never forgot about her struggle and my heart was always there with her. I loved her and I will miss her tremendously. My love and prayers are with her friends and family. I hope this final candle will help light her way.
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Kevin Berry posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Bethann was one of the funniest people I ever met. She was gentle and full of compassion, but had a spicy edge that made her an absolute joy to be around. My love and condolences to you.
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Laura Landolf posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
I was so sorry to hear this. I hadn't seen her in years, but followed her battle with cancer on Facebook. She was a truly unique person who was so much fun to be around. I will always remember our time at Alfred State. Sending my thoughts and prayers to Frank.
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Debra & Gary Pifer posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Our heart and soul go out to you Frankie. Bethann touched so many lives. She was devoted and compassionate. She was a firecracker with a sense of humor you can't replace. But most of all she was loving, and dear friend that we are so proud to have known for over 25 years.
Debra & Gary Pifer
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Stephanie Bock posted a condolence
Monday, August 13, 2018
Beth Ann will be so missed at Heritage. My deepest sympathies to her family. She was an amazing woman.
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Ann Marie Simm lit a candle
Monday, August 13, 2018
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To Frank and Family: My deepest sympathy in the loss of your beautiful wife, Bethann. She was courageous and strong and a great example for all of us. May she live on in your hearts forever. Praying that God will provide the strength, healing, comfort and His love to get you through this difficult time.
With love and God's blessings,
Ann Marie Simm
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Monday, August 13, 2018
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