I am truly sorry that I was unable to come to Rochester to attend the last rites of your father Frank Richards Sr. However, I wanted to take this means to say a last goodbye and to extend my very best military salute to my WWII veteran brother-in-law and friend whom I both admired and respected.
Your father knew very well that there are only three important values in life--family, faith, and work. In my opinion Frank and your mother was a real successes in all three of these areas.
Family & Work: Frank along with your mother provided a safe, secure and happy environment in which you all grew up. When sorrow struck at Gary's passing, the family grieved together, but reunited to go on. Frank was a devoted husband and father. Frank life work at Eastman Kodak gave him great photographic skills and his pride in you kids was reflected in the 100's of photos of you children as you grew up-- now a legacy upon which to look back upon.
Frank was an avid sport fan -- especially those NY Yankees and the Rochester AAA Club. Some of my most pleasant memories with your family were our annual summers and outdoor picnics. Frank always cooked the hot dogs and did an excellent job of it. After dinner we engaged in many vigorous games of ping pong where the older generation -- me and Frank, were pitted against the younger generation Frank Jr, Gary, and Ival Lee. I think the older generation won at least some of those games. They made sure to involve the whole family in games of bochie ball out in the back yard.
Faith: Both of your parents were faithful to their church and actively participated in its ministries such as the food kitchen and other missionary efforts. You can be real proud of both of your parents who were in my definition a real success. I am sure that the world is indeed a little better off because of their life and dedication to helping others.
Finally as you continue down the pathway of life may the wind be always at your back, may the sun shine warmly on your face and a gentle rain water your garden and cause your flowers to bloom. And until we all meet again, be assured that the Lord will hold your parents and you safely and securely in the palm of His hand.
As always,
Uncle Ival
